Out of Frame: When Favoritism Distorts the Gospel

What Does Favoritism Look Like in the Church?

Have you ever taken a photo and realized you accidentally left someone important out of the frame? Maybe it was Grandma at the family reunion - the very person the photo was meant to celebrate. The problem wasn't the camera; it was how you framed the shot.
James chapter 2 addresses a similar problem that happens in our faith communities. When we "frame" people incorrectly through favoritism, we don't just hurt individuals - we push the gospel itself completely out of the picture.

James doesn't ease us into this topic. He jumps straight in with a stark command: "My brothers and sisters, do not show favoritism as you hold onto the faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ" (James 2:1).
He then paints a vivid picture that would have felt familiar to his first-century audience. Two people walk into a worship gathering - one wealthy with gold rings and fine clothes, another poor with filthy rags. The wealthy person gets the honored seat while the poor person is told to stand in the back or sit on the floor.

The Subtle Nature of Favoritism

Notice that James isn't describing outright rejection. The poor person isn't kicked out - he's just not valued the same. This is crucial because favoritism often isn't obvious exclusion. It's subtle preference. It's saying "you're welcome here, but you don't really belong."
James calls this behavior what it is: making distinctions that divide people and putting ourselves in the seat of judgment with "evil thoughts." This isn't just poor manners - it's spiritually dangerous.

Why Does Favoritism Contradict God's Heart?

James doesn't just say favoritism is rude - he says it's theologically wrong. He reminds us that "God chose the poor in this world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom" (James 2:5).
This doesn't mean all poor people are automatically saved or all rich people are condemned. Rather, God consistently works counter to human expectations. He chooses the overlooked, the weak, the unlikely.

Why Does God Choose the Unlikely?

Faith doesn't grow best in self-sufficiency - it grows best in dependence. When we have little, it's easier to trust God completely. When we accumulate wealth and status, we can easily place our faith in those things instead of in Christ.
James points out the irony: the very people we try to impress are often the ones oppressing us. We chase after their approval while they "drag you into court" and "blaspheme the good name that was invoked over you."

How Does Favoritism Violate God's Law?

James grounds his argument in Scripture, calling love for our neighbor the "royal law" because it comes from the King and encompasses all other commands. But notice what this law doesn't say - it's not "love your neighbor if they look like you" or "if it benefits you." It's simply "love your neighbor as yourself."

Favoritism Is Sin, Not Preference

James doesn't soften his words: "If you show favoritism, you commit sin and are convicted by the law as transgressors" (James 2:9). This isn't a personality quirk or social preference - it's sin.
He dismantles our favorite excuse of "at least I'm not doing that." The law isn't a buffet where we pick and choose. Breaking it at one point makes us lawbreakers, regardless of what other commands we might keep.

How Should the Gospel Reframe How We See People?

The gospel doesn't free us from obedience - it frees us to obey from love rather than obligation. James calls this the "law of freedom" because our obedience flows from gratitude, not fear.
His final warning is powerful: "Judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment" (James 2:13). People who have truly experienced mercy show mercy to others.

Favoritism Forgets Where We Came From

When we show favoritism, we forget that we were once spiritually poor, outsiders with nothing to bring to a holy God. Yet Christ welcomed us in as we were. The Bible tells us our best righteousness is like filthy rags before God - we're all just sinners in desperate need of grace.
There's no preferred seating at the cross, no VIP section at grace. Just sinners saved by mercy.

What Does Gospel-Centered Living Look Like?

Seeing People as Jesus Sees Them

Jesus never reduced people to their worst moments or loudest sins. He saw Zacchaeus not as a crooked tax collector but as a son of Abraham. He saw Peter not as a failure but as a future shepherd. He saw crowds not as interruptions but as sheep without a shepherd.
When we see through Jesus' eyes, compassion replaces irritation, grace replaces judgment, and patience replaces distance. We stop asking "What's wrong with them?" and start asking "What might God be doing in them?"

Loving Without Calculating Benefit

Jesus loved with no spreadsheet attached. He healed ten lepers knowing only one would return to thank him. He poured into Judas knowing he would be betrayed. He washed feet without asking who deserved it.
This kind of love is costly, inconvenient, and often goes unnoticed. But it reflects the gospel because none of us earned the love we received from Jesus.
Refusing to Edit Obedience
Partial obedience is still disobedience. Editing obedience means following Jesus only when it's comfortable, safe, or aligns with our preferences. But Jesus never invited negotiation - He invited people to follow.

We don't obey to earn God's love; we obey because we trust God's heart. Every step of unedited obedience becomes a testimony that Jesus is worth following fully.
Life Application

The uncomfortable question James leaves us with is simple: Who have we pushed out of the frame? Who do we avoid, overlook, minimize, or judge before knowing?
This week, challenge yourself to intentionally include someone you might normally overlook. Look for the person standing at the edges, the one who doesn't quite fit in, the one who makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask God to help you see them as He sees them - as an image bearer with eternal value.

Consider these questions as you reflect on this message:
  • Who in my life do I treat differently based on their appearance, status, or what they can do for me?
  • How has experiencing God's mercy changed the way I show mercy to others?
  • What areas of obedience am I trying to edit or negotiate with God?
  • How can I practically love someone this week without calculating what I might get in return?

Remember, the gospel reframes everything. At the cross, our status collapses, our labels fade, and everyone stands equal at the foot of the cross. When we truly understand this, favoritism becomes impossible because we remember we're all just beggars telling other beggars where to find bread.

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